Surah Al-Taghabun, Ayah 14
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا إِنَّ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِكُمْ وَأَوْلَادِكُمْ عَدُوًّا لَّكُمْ فَاحْذَرُوهُمْ ۚ وَإِن تَعْفُوا وَتَصْفَحُوا وَتَغْفِرُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ
O you who have believed, indeed, among your wives and your children are enemies to you, so beware of them. But if you pardon and overlook and forgive - then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
اے ایمان والو! بے شک تمہاری بیویوں اور تمہاری اولاد میں سے کچھ تمہارے دشمن ہیں، پس ان سے بچو۔ اور اگر تم معاف کر دو اور درگزر کرو اور بخش دو تو بے شک اللہ بخشنے والا، رحم کرنے والا ہے۔
Explanation
This verse addresses a delicate reality that sometimes family members can become obstacles to one's faith or spiritual growth. The "enmity" mentioned here refers to situations where spouses or children might discourage religious practices, prevent charitable giving, or hinder spiritual development. The verse advises caution in such situations while also encouraging forgiveness and patience. It recognizes that family relationships are complex and that sometimes loved ones may inadvertently or deliberately create spiritual challenges. However, the emphasis on forgiveness shows that maintaining family bonds while protecting one's faith is the preferred approach. This teaches wisdom in handling family conflicts that involve religious matters.
Context
This verse appears in Surah Al-Taghabun (Mutual Disillusion), which discusses various tests and challenges believers face. It addresses the complex dynamics that can arise within families regarding religious commitment.